Culture Motherhood And Me: How Being A Mum Became More Demanding From maternity leave to the true cost of childcare, mum guilt and planning pick-up with military precision, seven working mums around the world get candid about the reality of juggling a career and a child. By Natalie Cornish Published 19 June, 2019 Culture Motherhood And Me: How Being A Mum Became More Demanding From maternity leave to the true cost of childcare, mum guilt and planning pick-up with military precision, seven working mums around the world get candid about the reality of juggling a career and a child. By Natalie Cornish Published 19 June, 2019 Previous article ‘The Secret To Success Is Just Turning Up’ Next article As Nike almost said, Just Start It Working motherhood is still one of the biggest challenges a woman faces. In fact, research suggests that no matter how much we prepare ourselves practically – by taking parenting classes, investigating childcare options early and meticulously planning our return to work while pregnant – once baby arrives, the juggling act is harder than it has ever been.The New York Times summed up the pressures perfectly. “Motherhood became more demanding [in the last 20 years],” they wrote. “Parents now spend more time and money on child care. They feel more pressure to breastfeed, to do enriching activities with their children and to provide close supervision.” And, while shared parental leave is aiming to make responsibilities more equal, and fathers are playing a bigger and more active role than ever before, in reality the majority of this burden still falls on mothers. They’re often the ones who take unpaid leave when their child is ill, or dash out the door to get to pick-up on time. Best Of Future Women Culture Nobody wants this type of transaction By Melanie Dimmitt Culture “I lost everything” By Melanie Dimmitt Culture He cut her off from the world By Melanie Dimmitt Culture He met her success with abuse By Melanie Dimmitt Culture This support system is being weaponised By Melanie Dimmitt Culture Have you heard of sexually transmitted debt? By Melanie Dimmitt Culture What kind of world are you building? By Sally Spicer Culture ‘Carry her strength forward’: What legacies ignite By Odessa Blain Your inbox just got smarter If you’re not a member, sign up to our newsletter to get the best of Future Women in your inbox.