Relationships What It’s Really Like To Elope, From Four Women Who Did It From pragmatism to romanticism, here are their stories. By Kate Leaver Published 12 March, 2020 Relationships What It’s Really Like To Elope, From Four Women Who Did It From pragmatism to romanticism, here are their stories. By Kate Leaver Published 12 March, 2020 Previous article ‘Useful And Reliable Are Not Enough. You Want To Be Valuable’: Redesigning Your Career In 2020 Next article The Daily Edited’s Alyce Tran On Building A Business And Feeling The Pressure To Grow Weddings are dreamy. The white dress, the layered cake, the slow first dance. The public declaration of love, the bridesmaid dresses, the speeches. They can be so beautiful. Brides and grooms describe their wedding as the best day of their lives. But what if you don’t fancy being ogled by 200 of your closest friends? What if you don’t want to pay a small fortune for flowers that’ll wilt before the night is out? What if you don’t like crowds, don’t like tradition, or don’t like organising large scale events, even in the name of love?Perhaps the most romantic possible scenario is to run away to a stupidly beautiful location and get hitched with just enough people to legally witness the ceremony. Whether it’s pragmatism or romanticism, lots of couples decide to do exactly that. Till death do us part Best Of Future Women Culture Nobody wants this type of transaction By Melanie Dimmitt Culture “I lost everything” By Melanie Dimmitt Culture He cut her off from the world By Melanie Dimmitt Culture He met her success with abuse By Melanie Dimmitt Culture This support system is being weaponised By Melanie Dimmitt Culture Have you heard of sexually transmitted debt? By Melanie Dimmitt Culture What kind of world are you building? By Sally Spicer Culture ‘Carry her strength forward’: What legacies ignite By Odessa Blain Your inbox just got smarter If you’re not a member, sign up to our newsletter to get the best of Future Women in your inbox.